religious beliefs

Defined
real love: from friendship to family's transition period.

interpersonal love is to attract the strongest form, is the psychological maturity to a certain degree of individual pairs of opposite sex individuals produce high romantic feeling.

love is a man and a woman on a certain social base and a common ideal of life, in their mutual admiration heart formation, and are eager to become his life companion the other side of a specific strong feelings of innocence. Sex, love, vision and responsibility constitute the three basic elements.

broad love: love, emotions are related to the call of love. Father and son love, friends love, affection and other students.

narrow love: love between men and women usually love.

Love is cuddling, not a one-way request.




love and like love and like to have 4 points difference:

① love to have more fantasy; like you are not aroused by the fantasy of others, but by a realistic appraisal of others to arouse; like love not as fanatical, violent, urgent, always more stable, peaceful and objective.

② love with many conflicting emotions associated; like it is a purely emotional experience.

③ love and sexuality are often related; the like are not involved in this need.

④ love is exclusive and exclusionary, like not have.

some social psychologists have designed measures of love and the love scale, to measure the degree of love between individuals and the degree of love.

love scale some of the projects is:

① If I can not with him (her) forever, I will feel distressed;

② for anything I would forgive him (her);

③ I feel anything I would trust him (her).

like the scale of some of the projects are:

① I think he (she) is very easy to get along;

② After the majority of people get to know him (her) response good;

③ he (she) is the kind of person I want to be.

use of these two types of scale, not only can show the love between individuals belonging to or like to attract, but also can reflect the degree of love, and love.
Category impulsive love
impulse of love, also known as romantic love. By other direct and strong physical attraction, always think of each other, always want as much as possible together with the other party, on the other's judgments are often not objective. Resulting conditions are: the cultural background of certain individuals to provide real or fictional love each other's patterns; have a love object; have their own emotions excited, but also understand the emotion caused by the love object. Whether such a love for the long-term hold, not quite the same view of the researchers.

love
self-centered self-centered love. Love the individual does not want to be love objects bound, do not want to be your love object bound to love as a series of challenges and solve problems, to avoid commitments burden.




rely rely love love. Have this love is often performed anxious to assemble the poor, jealous strong over the tragic ending.

practical love
practical love. Those looking for love in personality, religious beliefs, interests, background and other conditions of the love object match, hoping to find a suitable love object once, their feelings can be further developed. Arranged marriage by their parents, this more common form of love.

go hand in hand love love


go hand in hand. Unlike the impulse of love or love as exciting dependent, the two sides began as friends, have the same hobbies, work together, the progressive development of their affection. The two sides have this love relationship, even if subsequently broke up, and may still maintain the friendships.

altruistic love
altruistic love. A typical Christian notions of love, with patience and love color, does not require a return. This love in real life is often difficult to achieve.


Platonic love Platonic love, to the Western philosopher Plato called the spirit of a heterosexual love, the pursuit of spiritual communication,Lele 622005358, exclusion sensual. First proposed by Marsilio Ficino in the 15th century and, as a Socratic love of synonyms used to refer to Socrates and his love relationship between students.

Plato said: When body and mind would be excluded when the longing for the truth, then the idea is the best. And when the soul is the body infected by evil, people's desire to seek the truth will not be met. When human beings are not strong demand for the flesh, the mind is peaceful, carnal human nature in the animal's performance, the nature of each organism, one reason is the so-called higher animals because of human nature, human nature is stronger than animal, spirit communication is good, is moral.

platonic love have the following meaning:

? concept of the ideal type of love (very romantic metaphor or no concept of love can not be achieved)

? pure spirit rather than physical love

? gender views on love

? in this world there, and only one person, for you, she (he) is perfect, and only to you (you) run is perfect. That is, any one person, the object has its perfect, and only one.

first meaning the most commonly used, but is actually a misunderstanding. But as we have it available, also be another meaning. This misunderstanding comes from a famous book of Plato's \The book explores how to construct an ideal state, because perhaps too idealistic and difficult to achieve, it was in order to interpret the meaning of Platonic love.

second meaning is often used, but basically misunderstood. This misunderstanding comes from Plato's metaphysics, he thought that what is real and we see the so-called \

significance of the third and the fourth is really only concept of Platonic love or gender concept

Plato think that people during his lifetime and after death are the most realistic concept of the world, in where everyone is a complete fit men and women who come to this world we all split in two. So people always felt something missing, an attempt to retrieve his \Plato also used to explain why people would \

in his theory, not the half is more important, so men and women are equal. Moreover, the concept of the original world of your other half is your perfect object. He (she) is on a corner of the world, also is looking for you.