2010年6月22日星期二

dislike the presence of elders to participate in social activities. To be responsible for things

1. All day long soak in the Internet, do not know what to do. 80 after the most frequent reply was \
suggestions: Chat as a basic means of communication, the aim is to achieve recognition. Online chat is difficult to achieve this recognition, so the more boring the more talk. Young people's energy should be used in learning 才对.
2. impulsive, good prediction unknown jump to conclusions. Seen the movies and TV shows on, people will have lost the plot or the outcome of the next said. On the do not understand things a little bit of information released under the lengthy opinion, and mostly critical. Impatient of authority for no reason, but not openly challenge, eager to influence a few people around and have a strong desire to be recognized. Once we can not do, no longer speak, some people will fly into a rage, so that others understand.
tip: go on a trip, read more books, take part in group activities, more social contact. Most of the world beyond the truth in our vision, impetuous shallow cultivation of the individual performance was both community members Yeshi natural part of the world need to accumulation of pairs of the multi-Ren Shi Jin Keneng, Cainengdadao Yishi high enough, can Rang people seem less impetuous.
3. thin, do not love sports. Feel ridiculed on healthy people, afraid of muscle and strength. The aesthetic effect by Japanese comics, advocating the United States and pathological United States neutral. There is a certain relationship with the first point, the body's endurance, toughness and explosiveness, the more interested in the latter. However, after being stimulated, will demonstrate pathological stubbornness. This showed the two extremes, one fragile, on the other hand occasional surprise.
suggestions: fitness, and more outdoor exercise. Closest to the natural human body is part of a healthy and strong is not easy to knock out the body allows us to lifetime earnings.
4. character weakness, like the firm itself will not justify. Do not like through communication with the outside world views to achieve unity, but the surface of a compromise, a strong feeling inside, showing commonly referred to as treason. Weak performance of character and get along with the opposite sex is easy to commit animal in nature, the proper care of the opposite sex dreams. In figure out how the thing, even if there really like each other, but also the courage to pursue, but find a reason to back down. The usual reason is that their love did not understand, do not want to know.
recommendations: establish a masculine uprightness, showing a man of courage, always dare not evade, do not shirk responsibility. Like to express to her that, of course, I do not advocate puppy love, even more opposed to premarital sex, it is not responsible for the performance of men. Love, but also pay attention to propriety.
5. negative, refuse to grow up. Do not like to be that mature, in particular, was said to be intolerable old man. Impatient with their elders to discuss some practical problems, political resentment, dislike the presence of elders to participate in social activities. To be responsible for things, make them feel anxious and helpless.
suggestions: Try to understand the difficulty parents. Can also be obtained from the philosophical level, and to understand the dialectical relationship between pay, like the textbooks say the relationship between rights and obligations.
6. selective autistic, on the endless nagging acquaintances, strangers without a word. Prefer to use dialect or language network language and other non-public. Smoking, but not offering each other cigarettes. Drink, but not toast. Not a topic of interest to them, basically hard to talk down. People participate in the discussion, if no one invited him to speak, even if he has been brewing for a good speech, or will choose silence.
recommendations: these are the difficulties in communication. Propose to extend the knowledge, widen your social circle, changing the way of talking with people, brave to express their views, efforts to convey their views and influence others. Occurred immediately after the recognition incentives, repeated several times and out of the autistic.
7. habit of staying up all night before the age of 25 the number of significantly more. Sometimes in order to \Actually fall asleep late at night all.
recommendations: the same with the first 5, staying up late is actually autistic at play. There used to people who stay up all night, sleep during the day to find the reasons for closing, to avoid the harassment of the outside world. Although there is no sleep during the day or at home, because the spirit of malaise, can lead to \Recommend the immediate change in sleep schedule, open your heart.
8. There is no reason for pride. Think that other people can not understand themselves and others as a reason for disdain. Unwilling to listen to the advice of others, would not listen. This arrogant even they themselves could not know why.
Recommendation: As the time factor, and 80 after the self-esteem are more vulnerable psychologically more tend to self-protection, showing no confidence in the outside world. Recommended to know more about some social rules, no matter what the occasion, as long as you're within the rules, you are safe, free to express their value.
9. things are not according to plan, hate step by step, never know money is spent where. To also look at more novels, comic books keep more than proud of. Like to set a few things at the same time, busy battered state of their love, even though these things as long as the arrangement is perfectly reasonable step by step easy to complete.
suggestions: haste makes waste this truth would not have said it. Learn to plan, a comprehensive emergency situations can be avoided the risk of collapse.
10. do not ask questions that the authority of Baidu and Google, most people like to use search engine to think the search engine as its think-tank.
recommendation: Internet really has given us many conveniences,rather than external wealth, but a lot of things on the Internet are not research, can not withstand scrutiny. Therefore, to avoid making mistakes, this place is in need of out skepticism after 80 years, can not rely on the Internet Ershi own learning function degraded.

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