Buddha's dialogue with the people - the words of marriage

Night, one person, one Buddhist temple, Fozuo stand.

by: Majesty of the Buddha, I am a married person, I fell in love with another woman, I really do not know how to do.

Buddha: Do you believe you can fall in love with this woman is your life only last a woman?

people: Yes.

Buddha: Do you divorce, then marry her.

man: But I love gentle and kind, virtuous, I do have a bit cruel, it is immoral?

Buddha: there is no love in marriage is cruel and immoral, you are in love with someone else, no longer love her, you do right.

man: But I love love me, really love me.

Buddha: that she is happy.

people: I want to divorce her after she marries another woman, she should be very painful.

Buddha: in marriage, she also has her love for you, but your marriage has lost her love because you love the others have is that is happy, the pain is lost , so who is your pain.

man: But I want to divorce her after she marries another woman who lost her I should be, she ought to be painful.

Buddha: You are wrong, you just love her marriage to a specific, when you do not exist in this specific time, her true love would extend to another specific, because her true love and marriage never lost too. So she is happy, and you is painful.

people: She said that this life only loves me, she will not fall in love with someone else.

Buddha: so you say it?

people: I ... ...



Buddha: Do you now see before you, incense burner in the three candles, which roots the brightest?

people: I really do not know if the same brightness.

Buddha: The three candles is like three women, including one that you love that woman, mortal beings, women are at least tens of millions? You with the three candles which the root of the brightest do not know, can not you love to find out why you can identify the woman you love the Swiss is your life, the only last a woman?

people: I ... ...

Buddha: You take a candle on your eyes, heart to see what the root of the brightest?

people: of course, that the root of the brightest eyes.

Buddha: you put it back in place, look at the root Behold the brightest?

people: I really can not see where the root is the brightest.

Buddha: In fact, you just take the Okanagan is the candle that you love like that the last woman, the so-called love from the heart, when you feel you love her, you felt it heart to see the brightest, when you put it back in place, but you can not find the brightest point of feeling that you so-called last and only love is elusive in the end, after all, get the job.

person: Oh, I understand, you do not want to divorce me and my lover, you are in attunement me.

Buddha: see through is not to say it, you can go.

people: I now know I really love the Who, and she is my lover now!